Reasons Women Should Dress Modestly

Published Date: 02 Nov 2017

You may not realize it, but dressing like a slut or prostitute invites predators, excites the male passions, inflames the penises and puts you in real danger. Just read the papers about how many prostitutes are murdered, without any seeming motive. It never makes sense to inflame the passions of the male organs for any reason unless you are alone with your lover/husband and it is all planned.You never know when you are driving, for example, if you car breaks down or you have a flat tire, or someone you are with breaks down and you must walk through a bad neighborhood. You should always be prepared for this, because it happens all the time. Be prepared, and one of the simplest ways is to always dress like you are going to walk through dark alleys alone and you need to be covered up adequately.

2.1.2 Professionalism

It is always wise to look like a professional lady, even if you are just a student, a housewife, or just anything else. It gives you respect, and people will listen to you far more. You will carry a certain authority. It should not be so, because people should listen to you no matter how you look. However, it is true that uniforms carry authority with them. You need not spend a lot on the clothes. It is more about the look than the actual design or even condition of the clothing.

2.1.3Attracting only what you want and need, and nothing else

The way you dress can either cause people to be more interested in you, or it can turn them off to you, meaning it makes them walk away. This is called signaling. It is very real, and women all over the world do it unconsciously. So decide what and who you are looking for, and often, though not always, you will get it – or him, provided you have integrity – meaning you look the part, also.

So ladies, if you want a fine man, look like a fine woman. If you want a man of decency, and I hope you do, then look like a woman of decency. If you want a man of wealth or means, then look like a woman who deserves, desires and cares for money. It does not mean to "look like a million dollars". It means to look modest, wholesome, and healthy.

2.1.4 Staying warm

It is always foolish to dress in a way that you might become chilled. It is easy to catch cold, catch pneumonia, and letting yourself get cold always activates the sympathetic nervous system, which is harmful in the extreme for your health.

Allowing yourself to become cold, chilled, uncomfortable or even to have the possibility of doing this, is simply foolish. It indicates an immature, silly and ignorant person, usually one who did not have good parenting to remind her that getting cold is never good for your physical, emotional or mental health.

2.1.5 Setting a good example for others

Wherever you go, and whatever you wear and do, you are setting an example. Did you know that? It is true. You set an example for other young women, for men, for older people and of course, for the children and those younger than you. Do you realize that you have this power, every one of you? Therefore, be careful about the example you set.For example, you might lead another young girl into prostitution because you are dressing like a whore and she doesn’t realize that you are just "playing", meaning you are not really a prostitute you are just dressing like one. She may not realize it and think that prostitution is cool because you are doing it. Be careful – beware - because you will may be responsible if this happens. You can lead others astray, and this is a serious spiritual crime.

2.1.6 Causing people to pay heed and listen to you, and do what you tell them

This may seem like an odd reason, but it is very important to appear, look and talk like an authority figure, at times. For example, a little girl might stray into the traffic and you must yell out, "Come here at once and get out of the road". If you are dressed like a whore, people are much less likely to pay heed. If you are ever accosted, being dressed cleanly and professionally is definitely an asset as well. It is simply harder to take off more clothing.

3.0 How to Encourage Young Teenage Students to Dress Modestly

3.1.1 Improve the 'cultural capital' of young teenager

Expose the young teenager to art, performances, plays, literature, museums, and other aspects of culture. Let them meet local politicians, businessmen, judges, doctors, lawyers, engineers, merchants, chefs, craftsmen, and factory workers. Take them to see architecture, historical sites, the beach, the mountains, the rivers, town hall, and the state capital. Let them try a variety of different foods, sports, games, hobbies, etc. Doing this will point out that there is much more to world the teenager lives in than simply the opposite sex and money. Eventually, the teenagers dress will reflect that as well.

3.1.2 Discuss the Image Your Teen Wishes to Portray

Seeing the attention lavished upon scantily-clad celebrities and noticing the attention that she gets when she wears revealing clothing can send a teen the message that less clothing sets her apart from the crowd and helps her to stand out. What she doesn’t typically understand is that the kind of attention she’s attracting is probably not the kind she’s seeking. Talking about the kind of image that she wishes to portray and the fact that skimpy clothing can cause people to see only her physical attributes and not her intelligence or character may help to dissuade your teen from dressing in such a manner, especially if she doesn’t understand that attention from the opposite sex based upon her revealing clothing is almost always conditional. Explaining that boys who praise her lack of modesty and seek out her company when she’s dressed in a revealing fashion are almost invariably not the kind who are looking for actual relationships or who have much regard for her feelings can appeal to the romanticism that teenage girls can harbor. Let her know that sexual attention isn’t love, and that dressing more modestly can attract the attention of boys who are interested in her mind and personality, rather than her body.

3.0 Introduction of divorce

3.1 Reason of divorce

3.1.1 Lack of communication

Sometime communication isn’t just about talking to each other. Communication is about understanding each other clearly and learning more about each other. Most couples talk, but don’t communicate. A relationship without good communication is a bomb waiting to explode.

3.1.2 Difference in cultural backgrounds

 At the beginning, the stark differences in families and friends, and different religious beliefs may seem cute and worth a petty fight. But all it takes is a few months of suppressed ideas and opposing thoughts to wreak havoc in a marriage.

3.1.3 Your spouse doesn’t understand your needs or wants.

This is far more common than most people assume. As we evolve as individuals, we have our own needs and wants from life.

3.1.4 Trust

Do you really trust your spouse? Do you find their behavior suspicious, especially when they’re talking to a friend over the phone? Trust is an important pillar in marriage. If you can’t trust your spouse, you definitely can’t survive the marriage.

3.1.5 Money

Money always has a way of making life better or making life worse. There are only two extremes and no middle ground with money. Are you dissatisfied with your spouse’s earnings or monetary investment towards the marriage in any manner? This may start off as a nagging thought to begin with, but unless you discuss this with your spouse, you could be heading down the road of divorce over time.

3.1.6 Infidelity

The idea of infidelity almost always crops up in a marriage at some point or the other. You could find someone else extremely interesting or you may find yourself constantly trying to cheat, either for the excitement or in the hope of satisfying your urges.

3.2 How divorce effect the society

Divorce can save people from a bad marriage, but research has shown that it can also debilitate a society. Divorced adults are more likely to become impoverished while their children experience psychological and economic stress hindering their social development. According to the National Marriage Project, between 1960 and 2009, the divorce rate in the Malaysia doubled; between 40 and 50 percent of newly married couples will either separate or divorce. With high divorce rates threatening social stability, the United Nations urges governments everywhere to adopt policies to reverse this trend.

3.2.1 Lagging Academic Achievement

Divorce menaces society by disrupting children’s lives, which makes it harder for them to perform well in school and pursue higher education. Divorced parents who remain single have less time to supervise their child’s schoolwork or become involved in school activities. As a result, their children score lower on tests of cognitive development, verbal reasoning and math and science aptitude. Also, 58 percent of these children are classified as special needs as opposed to 31 percent of children in intact families. As for educational attainment, children of divorce are more likely to drop out of high school or not attend college

3.2.2 Children as Victims

Many sociologists believe that societies hoping to flourish and perpetuate must rear children responsibly. In most functioning societies, an intact family helps children develop strong moral character. Lacking such guidance, children of divorce are more likely to behave as social deviants. Specific findings reported by The Heritage Foundation are that these children are more likely to commit minor and serious crimes, run away from home, be suspended from school, smoke cigarettes, abuse alcohol, carry weapons, engage in physical fighting, and use marijuana and cocaine. And both male and female adolescents living in single-parent households have experimented with sex by age 11.

3.2.3 The Familiy as Society's Nucleus

Divorce hinders society by dissolving families and weakening belief in the family as an essential social unit. To sociologists, the family does more than unite people by marriage and blood or adoption; it provides the educational, financial and emotional support its members need to thrive socially. Without this support, divorced adults and their children are mentally and physically weakened, becoming less productive social participants. More broadly, divorce leads people to question whether having a family is worthwhile. The Heritage Foundation reports that children of divorced households tend to enter high-risk marriages. Even worse, says researcher Patrick Fagan, is that these children often do not marry and start families of their own, a phenomenon that can disturb social harmony.

3.2.4 Surging Poverty Levels

Divorce breeds poverty, particularly for women and children. In the first 18 months following divorce, between 77 and 83 percent of mothers and their children live in poverty. With fewer economic resources, most children of divorce experience disruptions – changes in child care, living arrangements and schools – that create turmoil in their lives. Long-term effects of poverty from divorce are most obvious in girls. According to sociologist Molly Martin, girls raised by a divorced parent tend to live on welfare and require public housing as adults. Public dependency continues for their children who, as mothers, are three times more likely to go on welfare.

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