Introduction To Require Women Dress Modestly

Published Date: 02 Nov 2017

The Importance for women to dress modestly

"Dress" in the phrase "Modestly Dressed" does not carry its literal meaning as attire, it actually refers to the way one is dressed or in other words, the cloths one is wearing currently. "Modest" would mean being humble and not trying to stand out and not seeking attention.

Attractive and striking clothes such as bright and flashy clothes are the opposite of modest dress. Modest dress is usually a compliment. It means you are a quiet, respectful person who does not dress inappropriately or act in a loud disrespectful manner.

Types of dresses

There are many types of dresses such as formal, informal, sweater dresses, casual dresses and other.

2.0.1 Definition of formal

Generally accepted formal standards usually represented professionalism, and the absence or lack of standards will be regarded as leisure. Range of formal clothing for women is the pioneers and pencil skirt gown. It includes smart clothes to wear to work, smart clothes to wear formal clothing in important meetings and retention of large events, occasions and celebrations. Whether you like to dress up, a piece of clothing or a combination of the classic suit, must for the woman you love to have some kind of formal wear.

2.0.2 Definition of informal

Informal attire is a mode of dress is less formal tuxedo, it also provides a more formal clothing casual wear.  An example, roll neck or deep V long-sleeved T-shirt knitting fine. The bright colors clothes are a great starting point. A two-piece is a convenient wardrobe staple creates smart casual clothing.

2.1Modesty Tips

In today's world, with an open mind is definitely a challenge, especially for teenage girls. I know because I am also one of them. But you can still wear what’s in style and be modest all the time.

2.2 Why law should require women dress modestly

Because if women didn’t dress modestly will easy to make social problem. There are many types why law should require women to dress modestly.

2.2.1 It will have a good image for women

Dress modestly actually will give a women good image, more people will respect them. If we are dressing modestly, we make sure that we give the good image to the people when we are going for interviews, shopping, to work, at school, visiting friend’s house and others. Therefore, make sure that the first image is always good so that the people will respect and admire us anytime.

2.2.2 Protect women safety

A woman can still dress to be beautiful, but the mystery of a woman's body is protected from being used. Modesty provides a needed defense against usage. For example, if your car breaks down or you have a flat tire or you are going to walk through dark alleys alone and you need to be covered up adequately. You should always be prepared for this, because it happens all the time.

2.2.3 It is keeping warm for women

It is easy to catch cold, catch pneumonia, and letting yourself get cold always stimulate the sensitive nervous system, which is harmful in the extreme for your health. For example the girl wearing is too expose will easily to feel cold and get fever.

2.2.4 Setting a good example for others.

Whatever you wear, wherever you go and do, you are setting an example. Set a good example for other. you might lead another young girl into prostitution because you are dressing like a whore and she doesn’t realize that you are just "playing", meaning you are not really a prostitute you are just dressing like one. She may not realize it and think that prostitution is cool because you are doing it. Be careful – beware - because you may be responsible if this happens. You can lead others astray, and this is a serious spiritual crime.

2.3 Causes of women not dressing modestly

They are many types of cause for women not dressing modestly such as show off, obsessed in fashion world; get attention to other people and others.

2.3.1 Show off

Some ladies like to show off. If you always show off for work with immodest dress, then the people will feel that you’re very not considerable to work at that place. So the people will underestimate the women who wear expose in the office. For example some ladies dress immodestly to meet customer so that the business can go smoothly.

2.3.2 Obsessed in fashion world

Nowadays women are willing to follow up the fashion road to rather sacrifice their body, and exposed their body to let other people see. The designers like to designer many types of clothes such as sexy clothes, short jeans, singlet to attract women. They cannot keep their temptation to buy the clothes.

2.3.3 Get Attention to other

They would like to wear sexy clothes to attract the attention from people especially men. For example, many ladies like to wear sexy clothes to go clubbing and go out with men so that they can show off and get attention from the men.

2.4 Effect of not dressing modestly

2.4.1 Effect maybe misjudge by people

The women always wear the sexy clothes, which will easily to let people misjudge them wrongly. They dress not modestly might lead others people to thought that they are not seriously women and slovenly women.

2.4.2 Risk of safety

If women do not dress modestly, they might lead arouse the men desire. They may to face dangerous such as robbery, rape, sexual harassment and others. For example when the men see the sexy lady walk alone on the road and he will attempt or do something inconceivable to the women.

2.4.3 Affect the country's reputation

Many visitors like to visit our country. When they see the ladies wear too sexy they will feel that our country is very casual. They will convey these messages back to their countries that will effected many tourists dare to travel to our country.

3.0 Conclusion  

In conclusion, I believe that family members can give some advice for ladies and girls to dress modestly. They can offer have a discussion with them and give them some opinions and advice along with suggestions as to other alternatives of dressing, in which one can still be trendy yet need not compromise on modesty. Men can accompany women to shopping and give them some suggestion to buy their clothes. The government can give some talks to women let them know of the dangers of dressing immodestly. A lot of girls give up on being modest because they think it is just too hard; however I can tell you that it can be done with the right mindset, viewpoints and also with discipline.

4.0 Introduction to divorce in western countries

Marriage creates a family relationship; divorce is the contradictory element of that. Divorce is the act of ending or terminating a marriage. Most of the Western countries allow divorce under definite situation. The authorized issues surrounding eligibility for divorce are often very complicated and include everything from alimony and child support to whether the divorced wife must return to her maiden name. Remarriage is a surprisingly sticky issue, and throughout history many regions regulated if or when a divorced husband or wife could remarry. It’s taken from the website. As seen from molly.kalafut.org/marriage/divorce.html.com

5.0 The definition of divorce

If a couple decide to divorce, a number of most important transitions of lifestyle and outlook have to be made. A succession of interviews which Robert Weiss carried out with divorced men and women in the US showed a definite 'trajectory of divorce' (Weiss, 1976). Women suffer from a divorce far more than men on an economic level, but the process of psychological and social adjustment seems similar for both sexes. As seen from Studymode.com (2012).

5.1 Lead to divorce

5.1.1 Different values and opinions

In today’s world, values of individuals differ greatly due to diversification, upbringing and so on. the difference in values and opinions may be good because it leads to diverse viewpoints and alternative perspectives on situations and issues however too big a difference is often destructive because instead of complementing each other, the difference tears down the relationship.

The variations in the values of people are due to many factors. Fundamental factors include basic issues such as gender, age, social class and so on.

There are many couples because of busy working or the distance of age difference is too big it will easily to get different values. Many couple quarrel everyday because of different values so that they easily have the concept of divorce. Sometime their opinions not same, every time quarrel, the other will feel very boring want to return to a normal life so filed for divorce.

5.1.2 Lack of mutual understanding between both parties

Due to the difference in value systems and opinions as seen above, chances are that couples with big differences would know less about themselves. When the way each party views and interprets things differ, along with the lack of openness and poor communication between them, the couple would have very little mutual understanding.

Western countries, people are very open so Many young people are very early dating so there will be a problem of early marriage. After they married, they will have a lot of dispute because they do not know enough about each other. This can easily lead to the reasons for divorce. For example, they want to get married but they just start dating a year. They haven know all the things about each other. After a few weeks, they start to quarrel; the men can’t tolerate her wife’s temper, then the man say he wants to divorce.

5.1.3 Marriage as a result of unplanned pregnancy

In some cases, premarital pregnancies are the cause of marriages. Usually young teenage couples who engage in unsafe intercourse which results in premarital pregnancy have limited options. One of which, would be the act of getting married as to cover up the illegitimacy of the pregnancy.

Such marriages will not last in most cases because the main reason for marriage is not out of love and care for each other, but as a means to escape the shame and humiliation of being pregnant at such an early stage.

With the progress of time, the stress endured along with the consideration of the basic fact that there is no mutual care and love present in the relationship, the marriage is bound to be over or even if it does endure, the entire atmosphere and condition of the marriage will not be constructive especially for the unfortunate child. However this is the outcome of most cases but not every case. There are cases where a healthy marriage and family scenario and condition existed although the marriage was initiated due to an unplanned/ pre-marital pregnancy.

An example, last year a friend, she found out she was pregnant, she married the guy. I have attended their wedding dinner; I saw the bride’s face was not happy. After a few month, she told me she already divorce because of they don’t understand each other. She was very regret. She said the baby was the most innocent.

5.1.4 Overemphasis on earning money and career instead of the marriage

The competitive work environments in which people work in these days represent a strong factor and challenge to marriage. As seen in marriage trends affecting working adults nowadays, people tend to get married at a much older age, couples hardly have any conversation and most of their time is spent at work. This shows that people prioritize their career more than marriage. Many cases exist where one party leaves the other over career advancements and pursue wealth and occupational success rather than to stay faithful and sacrifice to uphold their marriage vows.

5.1.5 Ignoring each others

Most of the people are busy working so that they will easy to ignoring each others. They are busy making money and less time to accompany each other,

5.1.6 Jealousy and inferiority

With the rise in the amount of capable and independent women, some men feel inferior. This is due to the conservative view where men should be the bread winner and provider for the family while women are to be dependant to them. The general rule is that the dependant party is considered the "weaker" party. When women are better qualified than men, some men may feel that their dignity and stature will be greatly compromised and their authority challenged. This results in marriages being terminated when the wife outperforms the husband in providing for the family and in career accomplishments.

This however has set in motion a new trend, which is the inverse whereby the wife is the provider and the husband manages the house. These so called house-husbands are seen as weak and of no authority by majority of other men who stick to the conservative view on marriage and the roles based on gender instead of capabilities. The view of house husbands being weak and insignificant is often a negative perception that society has. It is just a view and not a fact because as long as both parties are happy with the situation they are in and the roles they play in the family, then there is no problem with regard to this matter and the marriage is healthy.

5.1.7 Law relationship

The modern women have their own career. But their mother in law doesn’t like their daughter-in-law go out working. They like their daughter-in-law stay at home doing housework. But many modern women are very stubbornness want to have their own career so they will ignore their mother-in-law. Because of this incident, they will start quarrel.

5.1.8 Extra relationship

Just one of the reasons of the pin-point any extramarital affairs, it is very difficult to. The reason is that the multiple and complex. Extramarital affairs have been prevalent in our society for a long time. The only difference is that now they are being talked about more openly and frankly. The reason may be that such diversification tangentially opposite backgrounds, age differences.

6.0 Effect of divorce

6.1 Broken family

A broken family is one where the parents (mother and father) of a child have divide up and no longer share a single family home as a family unit. This is also known as a broken home.

6.2 Children abandoned

Child abandonment occurs, the obligations and rights of parents abandoning their parents. Jurisdictions abandon regulations may vary, but what is common to most parents do not communicate with their children or to provide financial support and living necessities, over a longer period of time, such as six months. Statutes often apply to the minor child less than 18 years old. Not be deemed a waiver of a child to the custody of parents or other caregivers to prevent the parent defendant is abandoned children access. Frustrated visitation and the cause cannot communicate with their children, also can raise legal defense to beat the claims of the abandoned children.

7.0 Conclusion

As seen in this section, the devastation of a divorce on a family and the affects it has on the children if there are any. Also the causes of divorce such as pre-marital pregnancies and lack of mutual understanding between the parties are looked into. By analyzing the causes, divorce is actually avoidable when people take necessary precautions such as having sex education in the case of pregnancies, marriage courses in general for the other causes. Basically marriage is a special and sacred thing which should be taken seriously by both parties.